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How to make your Woman feel secured in a Relationship By Kokoma

67% of all women feel insecure or not sure of their relationships. A man would believe that making his woman feel secured is all about being willing to rescue her from a fight or defending her from being harassed or protecting her from harm. Well all these does make her feel protected and safe but still there are some things needed to make her feel secure in the relationship.

 Security in a relationship goes this way. "you are first even though it hurts me, I will get hurt to make you happy. I will leverage my leadership not to dominate you but to your advantage.

Fortunately,  you can learn the right tools to make your woman feel secured or to show your man how to make you feel secured.

Here are some tips that most women  want in order to feel safe in a relationship.

* Communicate your willingness to sacrifice for her.
Women don't want perfect guys; they want men who are striving to be their best selves. she doesn't necessarily want someone who has every step of his life pre-planned but she wants someone with drive and goals. A man capable of making sacrifices for her.

* Consult Her in every decision you take.  

She is unhappy that you are going out and coming back with new Furnitures without confiding in her.  Not consulting her in every decision taken no matter how irrelevant it could be makes her Insecure.

* Avoid placing other things above her. 

There is a war being waged on women's safety and other priorities. Some men would prefer watching a football match to assisting their women. Therefore,  placing the matches over the welfare of the woman.

* Be sensitive to Her needs.

The first level of change is awareness. The needs of a woman includes to feel loved and happy. To feel seen and known when she is suffering emotionally or feeling lonely. She would think, "if he can't see that I am hurting now, then how long will it take him to figure it out?.she wants you to make her your first priority.
A woman can be lonely and still feel alone even when in a relationship.

* By being a faithful manager and a money provider. 
She wants to trust your abilities and potentials. She wants to feel like you can handle any task. She wants to feel like she won't be judged when asking for something different.

* Nonsexual touch 

Not every woman loves being touched publicly. most women in a relationship prefers sexual intimacy with their mates to be indoor. We're all aware that women are wired differently than men when it comes to sexual touches. While men often times are aroused by physical and visual Stimuli, women usually need to feel affection and trust. Environmental factors matters a lot to make your woman feel secured.

* Open and honest detailed Communication.
Women don't like headline news. they want detailed conversations. This is exactly how it feels to your woman when you push her away. "dear, the event went just fine and that's all". She is starring at you feeling sad because she wanted to know more and have the feelings of the event. A woman connects to her lover's words, actions and moods. Her feelings is just like a thread while her Lover's feeling is just like a box that must be opened. High energy level is required to be able to discuss high emotional conversations.
So put all in work and make your woman feel safe and secured in the relationship.

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